THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
- finding someone aesthetically pleasing
- being sexually attracted to someone
- being romantically attracted to someone
h/t to amomenttothink for retweeting this.
Earlier I posted a different link to a site that is trying to do this same work, and so far I haven’t had any luck with getting a response from them, but I understand they have been inundated with requests from people and there are only a couple of people singlehandedly running that site. Anyways, here is another site that might get your money to where it needs to go faster! I feel like it’s safe to say that it doesn’t matter which channel you go through to help the people in need, as long as the organization is legit.
as an out bisexual person with mental health issues, one of the biggest things that’s prevented me from seeking the mental health care has been the fear of my orientation being treated as pathological or, even worse, nothing more than a ‘symptom’ of something other mental or physical illness.
i know these are things that all GSM people worry about but it’s becoming increasingly apparent as i’ve been looking for friendly therapists that, while there are a handful of professional resources to help gay and lesbian find friendly mental health professionals (which is awesome!!) there’s extremely limited resources for finding non-monosexual friendly mental health professionals. or doctors or community centers, for that matter. and, frankly, i think access to friendly health and wellness resources is a basic right.
so, my point is, this a problem that i think needs addressing ASAP. so here’s what i’m thinking of doing to fix it: making a blog where non-mono people can recommend or warn people off of doctors/therapists/community centers they’ve been to so we can come up with a list of where to go and where to avoid if you’re non-mono.
but! before i make it, i’d like to know if this would even go anywhere. so!!
- like or reblog if you’d be interested in submitting your own experiences
- message me if you’d be interested in helping out (moderating? maybe coming up with a format for submissions?)
Boosting for followers
no see lesbians are not more accepted than gay men they’re more sexualized please do not get those 2 things confused
allison argent died for her code.
there is no way in hell you can convince me that her father would just turn on her code so easily